First time in the Dam!

chigusa · Post by **chigusa** » Sun 13th Jun 2010 05:35 pm

geekymonkey wrote:Just so you know, as a woman there are a lot of worse things that can happen to you when you are passed out in public, then just being passed out in public. 1 out of 3 women are raped in their lifetime, jackass.

you are not going to be raped whilst having a whitey in a coffeeshop. do not be dramatic.
if it's so easy to be raped in amsterdam, (please try to remember that we are discussing what can happen when one has a whitey in a coffeeshop in amsterdam), then why tell her it's so safe?
i'll thank you not to call me a jackass just for having a differing view to yours. there is no need for abuse.

even using your unsubstantiated figures means that two of three women are never raped in their lifetimes, so she's odds on to be fine.
also isn't it a fact that many if not most rapes are perpetrated by an assailant known to the victim? surely that throws your numbers out even more in terms of this discussion.
lots of strawmen around today.

Cisco · Post by **Cisco** » Sun 13th Jun 2010 05:36 pm

chigusa wrote:buy the strongest thing on the menu, roll a nice joint, smoke the damn thing and have a huge whitey. all that will happen is that you will pass through the whitey, pick yourself up and do it all again. it's part of the fun. don't treat dope so seriously. it's just a drug.

i haven't had a whitey for the best part of twenty years and envy those who have.

Thats the worst advice i have ever read !!! WTF ????

puffpuffgive · Post by **puffpuffgive** » Sun 13th Jun 2010 05:41 pm

OP, you might want to try a vaporiser cos it's easy to hit. various shops have them.. search the forum. In fact there's lots of threads for newbs on this forum, search around

i suppose the most important thing is not to take too many tokes all at once. have a blast, enjoy cannabis (it's excellent!)

chigusa · Post by **chigusa** » Sun 13th Jun 2010 05:42 pm

cisco wrote:
chigusa wrote:buy the strongest thing on the menu, roll a nice joint, smoke the damn thing and have a huge whitey. all that will happen is that you will pass through the whitey, pick yourself up and do it all again. it's part of the fun. don't treat dope so seriously. it's just a drug.

i haven't had a whitey for the best part of twenty years and envy those who have.

Thats the worst advice i have ever read !!! WTF ????

i'll bet that it is not the worst advice you have ever read. go over all the advice you've ever read, do it in your head, and i'll bet the house keys it is not the worst advice you've ever read.
it's the best advice she'll get though. deep down, in your heart you know i'm right.

Cisco · Post by **Cisco** » Sun 13th Jun 2010 05:45 pm

chigusa wrote:
cisco wrote:
chigusa wrote:buy the strongest thing on the menu, roll a nice joint, smoke the damn thing and have a huge whitey. all that will happen is that you will pass through the whitey, pick yourself up and do it all again. it's part of the fun. don't treat dope so seriously. it's just a drug.

i haven't had a whitey for the best part of twenty years and envy those who have.

Thats the worst advice i have ever read !!! WTF ????

i'll bet that it is not the worst advice you have ever read. go over all the advice you've ever read, do it in your head, and i'll bet the house keys it is not the worst advice you've ever read.
it's the best advice she'll get though. deep down, in your heart you know i'm right.

i used to like a good whitey myself

westerkerk · Post by **westerkerk** » Sun 13th Jun 2010 05:45 pm

Best advice I can give is relax, don't take it all so seriously or you'll end up stressing yourself out and giving yourself a panic attack or something.

Definitely ask a bud tender for advice.

Sir Niall of Essex-sire · Sun 13th Jun 2010 06:12 pm

Stick to the lower strength buds at first, your tolerance will build. Whiteys are a bit jibby, if you have one it's not pleasant, but you wont OD etc. Just be sensible man, smoking weed is meant to enhance your experience, smoking too much of too strong weed will not enhance your experience. I wouldn't recommend my female friends to get stoned of their ass's and walk around the city, i wouldn't recommend my female to get smashed and walk around London/Manchester/Newcastle etc. it's not because Amsterdam is particularly dangerous, but it's because it's common sense.

Enjoy yourself, take the usual precautions and you'll be fine. And if you feel you want to get extremely high, do what most people do and smoke in the hotel room with a heap of munch.

Iko · Post by **Iko** » Sun 13th Jun 2010 06:15 pm

I guarentee some of you have scared this poor las off for good.
Its WEED, dear god, the worse thing that can happen is she feels lightheaded and needs to drink more juice.

geekymonkey · Post by **geekymonkey** » Sun 13th Jun 2010 06:18 pm

Sir Niall of Essex-sire wrote:Stick to the lower strength buds at first, your tolerance will build. Whiteys are a bit jibby, if you have one it's not pleasant, but you wont OD etc. Just be sensible man, smoking weed is meant to enhance your experience, smoking too much of too strong weed will not enhance your experience. I wouldn't recommend my female friends to get stoned of their ass's and walk around the city, i wouldn't recommend my female to get smashed and walk around London/Manchester/Newcastle etc. it's not because Amsterdam is particularly dangerous, but it's because it's common sense.

Thanks Niall, I think you managed to say what I was trying to get at significantly better than I did.

The only reason I brought up rape, was to try to demonstrate that women have concerns that men don't generally have to have. (Which was why I had separated it from the original discussion of Amsterdam.) Not passing out in public has pretty much always been the very first piece of advice I received as a woman about substances and personal safety.

(Not to say that men are not also the victim of rapes and that male rape is not equally horrible when it happens.)

Sir Niall of Essex-sire · Sun 13th Jun 2010 06:18 pm

Iko wrote:I guarentee some of you have scared this poor las off for good.
Its WEED, dear god, the worse thing that can happen is she feels lightheaded and needs to drink more juice.

It's not just WEED. There's a city outside the coffeeshop to take into consideration as well, not everyone in Amsterdam is a chilled out hippy stoner wanting to toke up and be friendly. It's like every city in the world man, when i visited Van City i read in some books to keep my wits about me, personally i felt safe in the city, but people do need to be aware of the possible issues of big cities. Issues which are further compounded when one is mashed off their tits wandering around the town late at night lost.

westerkerk · Post by **westerkerk** » Sun 13th Jun 2010 06:49 pm

Sir Niall of Essex-sire wrote:
Iko wrote:I guarentee some of you have scared this poor las off for good.
Its WEED, dear god, the worse thing that can happen is she feels lightheaded and needs to drink more juice.
It's not just WEED. There's a city outside the coffeeshop to take into consideration as well, not everyone in Amsterdam is a chilled out hippy stoner wanting to toke up and be friendly. It's like every city in the world man, when i visited Van City i read in some books to keep my wits about me, personally i felt safe in the city, but people do need to be aware of the possible issues of big cities. Issues which are further compounded when one is mashed off their tits wandering around the town late at night lost.

This should be taken care of with common sense.

Take it slow, relax, enjoy it. Its not all about the weed anyway, enjoy the sights and sounds of the city too.

Sir Niall of Essex-sire · Sun 13th Jun 2010 07:06 pm

This should be taken care of with common sense

Like not getting twatted to the point of whiteying on the first time in a new city late at night and wandering the streets?

westerkerk · Post by **westerkerk** » Sun 13th Jun 2010 07:13 pm

Sir Niall of Essex-sire wrote:
This should be taken care of with common sense
Like not getting twatted to the point of whiteying on the first time in a new city late at night and wandering the streets?

No but you should be aware of your limits and your surroundings before you go and while you are there. Ok, so the OP might not know her limits with smoking but how many first timers go to the city and get so wrecked they get "twatted" or mugged or raped? Not many. But I hear ya, it only has to happen once.

I get what you are saying of course. Amsterdam is by no means a haven of safety. But generally, being savvy when it comes to looking after your own safety should pay dividends. Don't assume the OP is a thicko who thinks they can float through the city, wrecked with bundles of euros sticking out their pockets. Chances are she has already clued herself up.

damtoker · Post by **damtoker** » Sun 13th Jun 2010 07:44 pm

I would say Amsterdam (Centrum) is a fairly safe place for a lone traveller; male or female. Common sense with regard to money and belongings etc.

I sure wouldn't go for a whitey-inducing smoke experience though!

Go for the Orange bud or a Jamaican/Thai to start - nothing wrong with them at all imo - nice uplifting high that won't mong you out. I usually start out with a super polm hash and build from there

Have a great trip!

sh@dy · Post by **sh@dy** » Sun 13th Jun 2010 08:14 pm

if you`re no experienced smoker you should start with a vaporizer and if you like it, stay with it, smoking is bad for the lungs anyway

if you start with a joint/pipe you should get yourself some imported weed/hash