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works both ways, guys...

divorced my non-pot smoking, beer-drinking husband...and, go figure, he now smokes from time to time...

if it's an issue now, it will always be an issue...

oh...and we're not ALL boring...

isnt divorced and happy great

divorced, happy and gettin' high w/someone who luvs it too...

Purple Hayes wrote:Than again maybe you should sit her down and tell her how you feel.

Bingo.

I met this girls about 20years ago or so...we met trou friends i needed some herbs and this girl add some ..so came over too sell me weed...we fall in love at first site...we started a relationship BF and GF all was lovely..till she add no more weed to sell me....so from there on she really saw that i smoked and not only 1 joint here and there was a dayly thing wit about 1.5g at the time...she started the freak out's on me about smoking the DEvil's shit like she would say....so i started smoking and hinding it from her but she knew...id come up whit lies about it and if she would find weed shed Freak out id tell her (well babe whit my sisters im holding it for her) (she hated my sister) (lol) so id tell her lets smoke it and piss her right off (lol) (ah man i was so evil) so we would end up smoking it till she started getting that trick
then thing just got BAD and BAD...so one day she ask me the question you still love her ey? i told her yes and i wouldnt leave her once again for no one im sorry but Mari-jane (aka marijuana) my first loves name was marijuana and will always be in my hart and LUNGS Nothing will come beteewn us again! so Yeah! desisded after 3 years that was enough being bitch at!rant over!

Sir Niall of Essex-sire wrote:
TD, it's not 'cos you smoke and she doesn't, it's because she's a women and therefore finds things interesting that bore the shit out of men. There's no worries there man, it's the way of the world. Just nod, smile and add the occasional good comment and find something to occupy your mind while she's rabbiting. Possibly pork scratchings, possibly not.

Just remember, you probably bore her quite a bit as well!

To sum up; Women and Men bore each other from time to time, that's cool, as long as you have fun most of the time,find each other vaguely interesting and when you catch her walking down the street stare at her lovely bits then you're fine. That and Pork Stratchings RULE.

Well put SirNiall. Thing is, I'm tired of playing the "i'm interested in what you're saying babe" game. That said, I had a real nice talk with her yesterday. Real nice - I told her I'm off to Amsterdam this month and she flipped out. I'm starting to think that I'm the problem and not her... I booked up and without telling her or anything and I know how she can get like. I asked her if she wanted to come Adam too, but um... I got told "You dumb ass - what would I do there? Watch you get high with your buddies? no thanks" and that was that... well, not exactly, I felt bad and apologised repeatedly for being a sucker for Amsterdam. It didn't go down too well.

She's a lovely girl, and we do get on like 2 school kids bunking school - just when she's serious about stuff, I'm not and vice versa lol. Just spoke to here about 5 minutes ago, I answered the phone and first thing she says is "Oh babe, Sorry for arguing with you last night - jsut, I wished you consulted me more about stuff"... "about what stuff babe?" I asked. "Well, about you going off and booking your trip to amsterdam and not telling me about it til after. We're a couple and it hurts me that your friends know your plans before I do. I feel like second best." Yes, yes, I know - I'm a real asshole I felt bad so am taking her out this Friday night. And to make it an evening of atonement for my bad ways - I'm not gonna smoke any weed while I'm with her... (I'll just get real stoned beforehand)

Hope it all works out for you TD .Sounds to me,that she just wants to be the boss and thas fine as long as it suits you to.Seem to me she got what she wanted
1 You are taking her out on friday

2 You won t smoke weed around her anymore.

If you really love her it is a small price to pay?

Trichome_Dense wrote:I booked up and without telling her or anything and I know how she can get like.....

i had a relationship like the quoted sentace... a 5 year one.

she didnt like pills and i was bang into them at the time. going raving alot, and would just lie out right that i didnt do them (obvuisly she wasnt at the raves).

i also got into a strange loop where i would book football tickets, rave tickets, and amsterdam trips (none of which she wanted to go to), and i would stall and stall telling her that i had something booked, untill a good moment or untill it was litterally days before. my logic was she was quite a reactionary person, and it would be easier for both of us if she didnt know untill absolutly necessary... but what it does do is create a secretive mindset with that person. it doesnt seem such a big deal, but if you can keep small thigns secret, its easier to keep bigger things secret, and bigger things again.

my relationship i have now is like a wonderfull breath of fresh air. no mind games, no reading between the lines. i feel lucky. and if i compare the two, one thing i know is secrets really eat away at you, even if they are not big ones.

You dont think the good lady is telling you it's time to paint the spare room pink (or blue), and build yourself a shed do you mate? Ya never Know.

and before anyone goes off on one, it's a joke!

FUNNY AS FUCK BONER

pissing myself

Trichome_Dense wrote:Well put SirNiall. Thing is, I'm tired of playing the "i'm interested in what you're saying babe" game. That said, I had a real nice talk with her yesterday. Real nice - I told her I'm off to Amsterdam this month and she flipped out. I'm starting to think that I'm the problem and not her... I booked up and without telling her or anything and I know how she can get like. I asked her if she wanted to come Adam too, but um... I got told "You dumb ass - what would I do there? Watch you get high with your buddies? no thanks" and that was that... well, not exactly, I felt bad and apologised repeatedly for being a sucker for Amsterdam. It didn't go down too well.

She's a lovely girl, and we do get on like 2 school kids bunking school - just when she's serious about stuff, I'm not and vice versa lol. Just spoke to here about 5 minutes ago, I answered the phone and first thing she says is "Oh babe, Sorry for arguing with you last night - jsut, I wished you consulted me more about stuff"... "about what stuff babe?" I asked. "Well, about you going off and booking your trip to amsterdam and not telling me about it til after. We're a couple and it hurts me that your friends know your plans before I do. I feel like second best." Yes, yes, I know - I'm a real asshole I felt bad so am taking her out this Friday night. And to make it an evening of atonement for my bad ways - I'm not gonna smoke any weed while I'm with her... (I'll just get real stoned beforehand)

TD, let me tell you a story about me and my ex-fiance. I stayed at hers about a year back, i got along with her brother very well and went out and got pissed with him. Anyways on the way back he dared me to shit on her dining room table, a dare being a dare and him tellng me he'd get me a kebab if i done it i dropped the kegs and done the deed. Anyways, the next day completely forgetting this i send her downstairs to get a coffee while i was puking out the hangover in the bog and low and behold she discovers aforementioned dump. This does not please her. So she comes upstairs screaming about a shit being on the table and at this point i get a flashback and think....

'OH FUCK'

But, she says, ' The Dog's taken a shit on the table.'

That dog's still not allowed in her house, i used to feel bad when i'd be sitting inside drinking a cup of tea and the little bastard would be at the back door in the rain. But he was tough bastard...well he was got hit by a car recently apparently.

Anyways my point is when blokes get together we do stupid shit that doesn't please [most] girls. So it's probably right your miss's doesn't wana be out with you and the boys in 'dam partying the night away. That's why two worlds exisit in the world...

Guy World - containing all the banter and fun shit we love without any of the agro.

Girl World - containing a mix of interesting shit and boring shit that confuses us but we put up with it either because we're a soppy bollocks and love the girl enough to go through it or shes got an awesome rack.

Don't stress your head man, just remember that when your with the Miss's your all about the love and that shit, when your with the blokes you let your hair down and chill out. That's why it's important to have mates, and also important to not sacrafice your mates for your girl. Saying that don't sacrafice your girl for your mates either; find the middle ground man.

Sounds like it's a normal relationship to me man, only you know if you're happy, but it's not sunshine all year round...sometimes we get pissed on a bit. But if it's worth it in the end, don't stress your head.

had an argument with the Misses on the phone 2day, needless to say she won, reason being:- i threw my phone against the wall and it smashed into 6 pieces, punched the headboard on my bed until it cracked, and walked round the block to calm down, only to realise that the argument was pointless, I need a new phone, new bed, and now got hurting knuckles..... still calmed myself down witha spliff and i've just got off the phone saying goodnight and love you!!!

arghhh... women