On my own. Afetr wife passed away

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Condolences.

You will do fine on your own. Just let gapie know you will be in town.
A whirlwind tour of Amsterdam could happen.

You have been posted on the May Whos In Town page. You are far from alone.

Have a great trip.

Enjoy
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Hi mate im sorry for your loss ,i hope your return to amsterdam works out for you take care man peace
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:lol: WOW great reading all your comments good old ACD'ers coming through in numbers to offer words of encouragement. And yes i've already checked with the airline easyjet. They were very sympaphetic toward my situation and besides we booked evry flight with them to and from the Dam. So they've made a fortune off us. I'm looking forward to it. just scared i suppose. But your all right i have to attend all the TaTs. And arrange to make one or 2 of my own. Meeting gapie would be great idea as we were suppose to meet him last time but had to cancel as my spouse became unwell. So that would be fun. Yeah i think just keep busy. Its just those hours after doing the scattering. My head is going to be all over the place. to make matters worse thats my mother in Hospital with a heart attack and stroke just cant get any worse. Dont know how im still standing. Thats me buried a son. Cremated a wife and a mother on the brink. What am i to do. Roll on May. :D
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I am so sorry to read of your loses, this must be a truly hard time for you. Perhaps, when you have scattered her ashes you will find a bit of peace.
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sorry to here bro,..my deepest,.... :( ..dont morn the death ,celebrate the life,......ill toast one for her in late april,..........
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my condolences , that is a hell of a lot to go through , all the best for your trip :)
Sending out the good vibes to those that need them right now :-)
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my condoleces, meet gapie his one funny crazy dude lol :wink: stay strong mate
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My Condolences event if we dont know each other ...
dont be seem whit the ashes..since its illegal to do that in any countries to scatter ashes..and you may end up whit a fine and losing her and other time :roll:

Good luck may she RIP in vondel park ;)
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Craig,

Sending heartfelt condolences for what you've been enduring, and are still going through.
I hope you find solace in your upcoming journey back to Amsterdam. I agree with the other suggestions..try and have a trusted friend come along.

Too bad we aren't going to be in A'dam during the same dates, you'd be more than welcome to join up with us.

May you find peace in your journey & joy in your sweet memories.

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Thanks lexi thats nice what youve wrote. And it means a lot to know there are people out there who care. Thanks again to all who have posted im looking forward to it. And scared about it at the same time.
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Omg that is so sad, i just want to give you a big hug. I do hope you find a good friend to go along with you but if not try to keep as busy as possible. Thoughts are with you x
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thoughts and prayers are with you!! may the lord give you the strength you need.
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My sincerest sympathy for your loss..
Hope you have a nice trip...
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Thanks all for the kind words and condolences. They really do mean a lot. Looks like I will be going out on my own. So I just hope I get to hook up with some people from the hostel(stayokay,vondelpark) after I've done what I went out to do. That way I won't have time to think. Not in bad way but in a way that helps keep me sane. Thanks again all. Good old ACDers always there in times of need. :D
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