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Re: On my own. Afetr wife passed away
Posted: Sat 25th Feb 2012 03:33 am
by FlyByNite
Condolences.
You will do fine on your own. Just let gapie know you will be in town.
A whirlwind tour of Amsterdam could happen.
You have been posted on the May Whos In Town page. You are far from alone.
Have a great trip.
Enjoy
FlyByNite
Re: On my own. Afetr wife passed away
Posted: Sat 25th Feb 2012 11:37 am
by damagedagain
Hi mate im sorry for your loss ,i hope your return to amsterdam works out for you take care man peace
Re: On my own. Afetr wife passed away
Posted: Sat 25th Feb 2012 08:00 pm
by craig bell

WOW great reading all your comments good old ACD'ers coming through in numbers to offer words of encouragement. And yes i've already checked with the airline easyjet. They were very sympaphetic toward my situation and besides we booked evry flight with them to and from the Dam. So they've made a fortune off us. I'm looking forward to it. just scared i suppose. But your all right i have to attend all the TaTs. And arrange to make one or 2 of my own. Meeting gapie would be great idea as we were suppose to meet him last time but had to cancel as my spouse became unwell. So that would be fun. Yeah i think just keep busy. Its just those hours after doing the scattering. My head is going to be all over the place. to make matters worse thats my mother in Hospital with a heart attack and stroke just cant get any worse. Dont know how im still standing. Thats me buried a son. Cremated a wife and a mother on the brink. What am i to do. Roll on May.

Re: On my own. Afetr wife passed away
Posted: Sat 25th Feb 2012 08:07 pm
by Trad
I am so sorry to read of your loses, this must be a truly hard time for you. Perhaps, when you have scattered her ashes you will find a bit of peace.
Roll on May.
Re: On my own. Afetr wife passed away
Posted: Sun 26th Feb 2012 08:37 pm
by gromit
sorry to here bro,..my deepest,....

..dont morn the death ,celebrate the life,......ill toast one for her in late april,..........
Re: On my own. Afetr wife passed away
Posted: Mon 27th Feb 2012 10:58 am
by ftcarer
my condolences , that is a hell of a lot to go through , all the best for your trip

Re: On my own. Afetr wife passed away
Posted: Mon 27th Feb 2012 02:33 pm
by Wellgo
my condoleces, meet gapie his one funny crazy dude lol

stay strong mate
Re: On my own. Afetr wife passed away
Posted: Mon 27th Feb 2012 03:46 pm
by Adamster
My Condolences event if we dont know each other ...
dont be seem whit the ashes..since its illegal to do that in any countries to scatter ashes..and you may end up whit a fine and losing her and other time
Good luck may she RIP in vondel park

Re: On my own. Afetr wife passed away
Posted: Tue 28th Feb 2012 03:22 am
by Willjay
Thoughts are with you, Roll on May
Re: On my own. Afetr wife passed away
Posted: Fri 9th Mar 2012 11:07 pm
by lexi
Craig,
Sending heartfelt condolences for what you've been enduring, and are still going through.
I hope you find solace in your upcoming journey back to Amsterdam. I agree with the other suggestions..try and have a trusted friend come along.
Too bad we aren't going to be in A'dam during the same dates, you'd be more than welcome to join up with us.
May you find peace in your journey & joy in your sweet memories.
Lexi
Re: On my own. Afetr wife passed away
Posted: Sat 10th Mar 2012 09:02 pm
by craig bell
Thanks lexi thats nice what youve wrote. And it means a lot to know there are people out there who care. Thanks again to all who have posted im looking forward to it. And scared about it at the same time.
Re: On my own. Afetr wife passed away
Posted: Mon 12th Mar 2012 09:35 pm
by us2
Omg that is so sad, i just want to give you a big hug. I do hope you find a good friend to go along with you but if not try to keep as busy as possible. Thoughts are with you x
Re: On my own. Afetr wife passed away
Posted: Tue 13th Mar 2012 08:20 pm
by Weemanio
thoughts and prayers are with you!! may the lord give you the strength you need.
Re: On my own. Afetr wife passed away
Posted: Tue 13th Mar 2012 08:25 pm
by tuttiflutes
My sincerest sympathy for your loss..
Hope you have a nice trip...
tutti
Re: On my own. Afetr wife passed away
Posted: Wed 14th Mar 2012 04:34 pm
by craig bell
Thanks all for the kind words and condolences. They really do mean a lot. Looks like I will be going out on my own. So I just hope I get to hook up with some people from the hostel(stayokay,vondelpark) after I've done what I went out to do. That way I won't have time to think. Not in bad way but in a way that helps keep me sane. Thanks again all. Good old ACDers always there in times of need.
