Well I have been putting this post off.

[cattales1960]

I have tried to convince DH how bad I want to go to amsterdam this year but he does not want to go this year. I am so bummed I can barely type this. Maybe I can go by myself but I suggested that to him and he didnt give me his blessing on that. I dont know what to do.

[geekymonkey]

(Hugs)

[Uncle Ron]

WTF Cat???
Do I need to make a special trip to smash DH right in the face (with a cream pie)?
Sorry, didn't want to help myself...

Blessing???? I know from years of experience that a marriage or partnership or whatever means there is more than one person involved (meaning compromise), but there are limits. Just because my significant other doesn't want to participate shouldn't mean I can't, and to say I can't just because they don't want to.... I'm over 21, GFY (Go Fuck Yourself). This isn't something that I would use to end a relationship, but it may be a sign of things to come. Yup, speaking from experience having been married 3 times.
I hope you work it out, regardless if you make it or not.

Love and understanding...
Happy trails...

[FlyByNite]

Oh no, no hash lady to toke with.

Maybe you can work out a compromise, like a short trip.

Enjoy
FlyByNite

[cattales1960]

WTF Cat???
Do I need to make a special trip to smash DH right in the face (with a cream pie)?
Sorry, didn't want to help myself...

Blessing???? I know from years of experience that a marriage or partnership or whatever means there is more than one person involved (meaning compromise), but there are limits. Just because my significant other doesn't want to participate shouldn't mean I can't, and to say I can't just because they don't want to.... I'm over 21, GFY (Go Fuck Yourself). This isn't something that I would use to end a relationship, but it may be a sign of things to come. Yup, speaking from experience having been married 3 times.
I hope you work it out, regardless if you make it or not.

Love and understanding...
Happy trails...

LOL and I think he needs a pie in the face. ROFL. Actually, he has been hinting that he didnt want to go but was going to go because I wanted to go so bad. Well then his fucked up hospital he works for ( You know the one that I left last year, yeah that one, he still works there) Are making everyone cancel any trips they have planned during the week of April 15th thru like 23rd for some new computer system they are being trained on. So when me mentioned that I was like, do you care if I go by myself? and he was like No response. IM not truly giving up yet but we will see what happens.

[cattales1960]

Oh no, no hash lady to toke with.

Maybe you can work out a compromise, like a short trip.

Enjoy
FlyByNite

I am dying for some decent hash.

[gromit]

love, trust, respect, compromise,............all thin lines ,.....

tell him youll call,.Doh`

[Marco]

Really sorry to hear that But won't judge your DH, relationships are a 2-way street.

We will miss you!~

[Uncle Ron]

LOL and I think he needs a pie in the face. ROFL. Actually, he has been hinting that he didnt want to go but was going to go because I wanted to go so bad. Well then his fucked up hospital he works for ( You know the one that I left last year, yeah that one, he still works there) Are making everyone cancel any trips they have planned during the week of April 15th thru like 23rd for some new computer system they are being trained on. So when me mentioned that I was like, do you care if I go by myself? and he was like No response. IM not truly giving up yet but we will see what happens.

He needs a love pie to the face...
'effing work, 'effing new systems, 'effing hard choices....

tell him youll call,.Doh`

nice one gromit, classic...

Love and understanding..........and compromise
Happy trails...

[cattales1960]

love, trust, respect, compromise,............all thin lines ,.....

tell him youll call,.Doh`

LOL this is cute! Actually he knows I would keep in touch everyday. The very first trip I took to amsterdam was with a girlfriend from high school who had inherited a bunch of money and wanted me to go to Ireland with her and I said sure but since we are over that way can we stop by amsterdam? Well she said whats in amsterdam and I said you dont know? well I told her she just has see and live it to believe it. LOL. Also told her they have these coffeeshops where you can buy weed. Well at first she didnt beleive me so I showed her on the internet and she was convinced. So we went. We had a blast and everymorning I woke up, went down to the coffeeshop right behind the hotel got my coffee and got high, then went next door to the internet shop and wrote home. I think its more of a situation that he wants to go but knows he cant now. I dont know. I am still gonna work on it.

[spidergawd]

Tough call, but I bet you wouldn't be able to enjoy it (so much ) knowing your Mr. wanted to be with you.

I love your first trip story Cat, thats classic. how old were you?

I wonder if your girlfriends mothers had you down as a bad influence, which of course you weren't.

[TwoCanucks]

Catt, you are aware that silence is the sound of agreement and consent? It has been since the middle ages.

Enjoy!

[cattales1960]

Tough call, but I bet you wouldn't be able to enjoy it (so much ) knowing your Mr. wanted to be with you.

I love your first trip story Cat, thats classic. how old were you?

I wonder if your girlfriends mothers had you down as a bad influence, which of course you weren't.

LOL you hit it in the nail about my gf mom. IN high school I was only allowed to hang around her at their house so her mom could keep an eye on me. Well one time I went with her and her mom to an event that had live flowers on the table. I said watch this to my friend. she was like oh no what are you going to do and dont do it, mom will never let me hang around you. Well........... I ate the flowers and after the initial shock look on her moms face, she busted out laughing and and I was in like flint then. hehehe. Sometimes you just have to prove your affection for someone .

I guess we were in our early 40s when we went. We were having too much fun. Lets just say I am better behaved when DH is with me(like going back to the apartment early and such) I still say I should of come back down to basjoes that one night we were having so much fun. Oh well.

[cattales1960]

Catt, you are aware that silence is the sound of agreement and consent? It has been since the middle ages.

Enjoy!

TC I dont understand? I keep no secrets from my husband. If I do something wild, he is the first to hear about it. LOL.

[TwoCanucks]

Catt, you are aware that silence is the sound of agreement and consent? It has been since the middle ages.

Enjoy!

TC I dont understand? I keep no secrets from my husband. If I do something wild, he is the first to hear about it. LOL.

No no no... Always tell your hubby... But if says nothing when you ask, then thats the sign of consent!