What's the deal with women smoking in coffeeshops?

bundee1 · Post by **bundee1** » Fri 30th Jan 2009 04:36 am

I'm asking because my wife is coming with me and she wants to smoke. Ive read on another forum that some coffeeshop owners and budtenders give women the evil eye. Anyone come across that behavior before and if you have, where was it so we can avoid it?

FlyByNite · Post by **FlyByNite** » Fri 30th Jan 2009 05:07 am

I have smoked with many women in a lot of coffeeshops and never had a problem because one or more of the party were female. If they were good looking women they might have gotten an ogling eye, but that is to be expected anywhere in the world, and more likely to come from a fellow customer.
Most budtenders are very friendly and helpful.

Enjoy
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InsaneSkippy · Post by **InsaneSkippy** » Fri 30th Jan 2009 06:02 am

My girlfriend came with me to every shop I went to and there was never any problems with it.

bundee1 · Post by **bundee1** » Fri 30th Jan 2009 06:20 am

Cool. My wife doesnt smoke as much as me and the last thing I need is for some skeevy guys to be grilling her while she is as high as the sky.

murphyscafe · Post by **murphyscafe** » Fri 30th Jan 2009 07:59 am

FlyByNite wrote:I have smoked with many women in a lot of coffeeshops and never had a problem because one or more of the party were female. If they were good looking women they might have gotten an ogling eye, but that is to be expected anywhere in the world, and more likely to come from a fellow customer.
Most budtenders are very friendly and helpful.

Enjoy
FlyByNite - Travel preference, not business practice

Coffeeshop Frog Hollow
home of the
Whos In Town
and
Coffeeshop Menus
pages.

i second that!

if ur rude, im sure they will be rude back!

like most (all on here) are the opposite, we find them very helpful and knowlegable!!!

dont worry, just go and enjoy the relaxed dutch life!

CHELSEA_SMOKERS_SOCIETY · Fri 30th Jan 2009 08:29 am

never ever ever heard that before!

honestly, thats a terrible rumour you've heard.

any human who is being obnoxious or rude may get a glare, but there is zero 'men only' culture to coffeeshops.

geoffk · Post by **geoffk** » Fri 30th Jan 2009 01:53 pm

Never heard that one. My wife was reluctant about visiting coffeeshops, but ended up liking the atmosphere of most all of them.

Pala · Post by **Pala** » Fri 30th Jan 2009 05:47 pm

Where have you read this?

aaron · Post by **aaron** » Fri 30th Jan 2009 05:55 pm

HUH?

Ive been to coffeeshops with women before,and ive seen women in plenty of coffeeshops?

Never seen or heard of anything like that.

codejd · Post by **codejd** » Fri 30th Jan 2009 07:36 pm

you need not worry about this...

Ash333 · Post by **Ash333** » Fri 30th Jan 2009 10:02 pm

in some of the Arab/Morrocan places you dont see many women. Not to say they arnt welcome tho...

chopitup · Post by **chopitup** » Sat 31st Jan 2009 04:31 am

What's the point of going to a coffee shop if there's no women to perve on??

... oh that's right, I remember now

bundee1 · Post by **bundee1** » Sat 31st Jan 2009 04:37 am

The guy who posted it on the smokers guide forums said the owners were Asian and that they kept talking to each other and staring at his girlfriend. I don't remember what cs it was only that it was one of the lowest rated ones. I tried to check again yesterday and the site is down. I didn't want to mention race because I wanted to see if this was broader ranging than a cultural bias. If all the cs you guys recommend are as cool as they sound then I won't sweat it. Thanks!

echc1 · Post by **echc1** » Sat 31st Jan 2009 05:35 am

you mean you can get you're eyes to focus that well?....plenty of women smoke in c/s.....i can tell this as the noises from the blurry things sound different to the bigger blurry things

Sir Niall of Essex-sire · Sat 31st Jan 2009 12:23 pm

My miss's always gets better weight/nicer buds in cs than me.

Bitch.

I kid i love her very much. But ive said it before, the power of boobs is never to be underestimated.