K, I guess we've all had relationships where our other (sober) halves don't smoke cannabis. This can create problems between the sexes... no, I'm not talking libido (though that cvan also be discussed here if you feel the nneed to) I'm talking ... here, I give you an example.
My GF doenst smoke...anything. I smoke ciggys, and weed/hasj. When I'm sober, I'm often bored and feign interest in whatever she's saying - and she never knows that I'm craving a joint. So, although I'm not in a good place - she is, coz she thinks she's getting 100% Tricky_D, when really she's getting like 40 or 50% coz my mind is wandering off on a mosey.
But, When I'm stoned, I actually pay her the right attention. Ask her loadsa questions pertaining to here interests, because I'm genuinely interested - but she just gives me "THAT" blank look and says "I can't take you seriously when you're stoned Ace"...
Conundrum... am I the only one with incompatible relationship problems? Please share and make me feel better, this crap has been going on for almost 3 years now... :/
Incompatible Relationships :/
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My wife sometimes gives me that shit to, but i was smokin since i was 13 or 14, so i start seeing her two years after that.That was 16 years ago , so to been fair i love my smoke, just like the rest of us on this forum and she knows this,one of the many reasons i married my girl.If she loves you she will accept you and maryjane,if not maybe it is not to be.
Than again maybe you should sit her down and tell her how you feel.
Thats what they say they want
Than again maybe you should sit her down and tell her how you feel.
Thats what they say they want
I love the smell of weed in the morning.
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Re: Incompatible Relationships :/
You mean you find your miss's talks some shit from time to time and you have to fake an interest?Trichome_Dense wrote: When I'm sober, I'm often bored and feign interest in whatever she's saying
Most recent conversation i had with a bird in the pub tonight'Oh so i watched one tree hill last night...'
'Oh right' *stare at pint hoping to find some inspiration in being able to not tell her she's boring me and i'd rather replace her with a pack of pork scratchings.*
'Yea so and so died and (at this point it becomes a noise rather than an actual sentence of words to me.)
'Oh yea, sounds good.' * Nod to Barman and order pork scratchings*
'I cried at....'( noise again.)
'Yea that's crazy.' * go to town on pork scratchings while realising there is good in the world.*
TD, it's not 'cos you smoke and she doesn't, it's because she's a women and therefore finds things interesting that bore the shit out of men. There's no worries there man, it's the way of the world. Just nod, smile and add the occasional good comment and find something to occupy your mind while she's rabbiting. Possibly pork scratchings, possibly not.
Just remember, you probably bore her quite a bit as well!
To sum up; Women and Men bore each other from time to time, that's cool, as long as you have fun most of the time,find each other vaguely interesting and when you catch her walking down the street stare at her lovely bits then you're fine. That and Pork Stratchings RULE.
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