not uber alles wrote:Having just read those guidelines, I wonder if it would be a good idea to approach the police myself and declare an intention to grow a few plants for my own personal consumption.
The guidelines make it clear that people who are upstanding citizens who grown only for their own pleasure and have a mitigating factor ( such as being a primary carer) will be discharged.
This describes me really. I'm a professional person, never been in any trouble, and have a profoundly disabled daughter. I smoke at night to relax and save me from the likelihood of having a breakdown from trying to look after a small child with a life limiting disorder .
In short I would be discharged in the event of any raid etc, and given that it would be in nobody's best interest to waste police time and resources on an inevitable discharge, it would be in the polices interest to ignore it.
But, it would be still a concern and the last thing I'd want is the police turning up upsetting my family. So, if I approached them and informed them of my intentions and that they were welcome to come to my house normally, not with riot van and check that I'm not flouting any of the guidelines and have too much weed etc then I do wonder if they'd be open to the idea.
I think your mitigating factors would help you to an extent lesser charge/discharged , you may even get away with say , police at your door for an unrelated matter , neighbour dispute / car accident whatever , they see what i'm assuming to be a house with adaptions ? , "who's are they" , "daughters , i'm her carer" , you forgot a half smoked J in the ashtray , they see it , can't miss it , but taking in your circumstances & given that your not related to what they are there for , your not known to them as trouble , no calls " not uber alles is doing this , people in & out the house at all hours "

been there , been through it , got through it

you may get a by the book the book copper , every offence must be punished , you never know
You tell them your gonna grow , they will nick you , they have to , some may risk "sorry I missed it " to give some of us a break, but I don't think many would risk the possible shit storm of " well they told me they were going grow a few MJ plants for themselves & I just thought fuck it , let them get on with it " Do not tell them

don't tell anyone
Read , start with a filter & be SAFE
1 carer to another I wish you nothing but the best , it is not easy at times , stress is a right mindfucker

look after yourself , you know how important YOU are

tbh I find that the most stressful part

1 of the reason's I love DAM , i'm just me

all the best to your family

I know there is only so much help out there but I do hope someone is helping your family to help your daughter suffer as little as possible
