RIP Robin "Mork/Mrs. Doubtfire/Peter Pan" Williams
Posted: Tue 12th Aug 2014 03:21 am
Although a somber moment, I'm warmed by the memories of laughter that Robin Williams gave to me and untold millions (perhaps billions).
Suicide is no solution, it doesn't stop or prevent or cure something that doesn't exist - demons.
If people/society want to help addicts, stop calling their fight with addiction as battling "demons", that would be a great start. Call it what it is - a disease.
I'm reminded of a scene from an American TV drama called West Wing (90's), where one of the leading characters was describing his battle with alcohol addiction.
He likened it to being trapped in a hole, and whomever he turned to for help, they couldn't.
...as I'm trapped in the hole, I see my family and friends move on, living their lives, not recognizing my pleas for help.
One day a Priest happened by, and I shouted "Father, I'm stuck in this hole, will you help me?" The Priest told me to kneel with him and pray. He said a few Hail Mary's, and walked off...
...a short time later my family doctor walks by and I shout at him for help. He writes a prescription and throws it into the hole, and walks off.
I'm still stuck in this hole...prayer doesn't work, medicine failed as well. Perhaps I should do everyone a favor and end it all?
As I'm contemplating my next move, a friend walks by, and in a final desperate act, I shout to him - "hey friend, I'm really stuck and nobody seems to be able to help, will you?" What my friend does next took me by complete surprise - he jumped into the hole with me. Shocked and horrified, I asked why did he jump into the hole, because now we are both stuck? He told me not to worry because he's been exactly where I've been and knows the way out.
If you know of someone with this disease (regardless of the drug), be there for them... and when the time comes that this person really needs some help, seek the assistance of a recovering addict, because they are the only ones that know what it takes to overcome ones addictions.
Love and Kindness...
RIP Robin...
Suicide is no solution, it doesn't stop or prevent or cure something that doesn't exist - demons.
If people/society want to help addicts, stop calling their fight with addiction as battling "demons", that would be a great start. Call it what it is - a disease.
I'm reminded of a scene from an American TV drama called West Wing (90's), where one of the leading characters was describing his battle with alcohol addiction.
He likened it to being trapped in a hole, and whomever he turned to for help, they couldn't.
...as I'm trapped in the hole, I see my family and friends move on, living their lives, not recognizing my pleas for help.
One day a Priest happened by, and I shouted "Father, I'm stuck in this hole, will you help me?" The Priest told me to kneel with him and pray. He said a few Hail Mary's, and walked off...
...a short time later my family doctor walks by and I shout at him for help. He writes a prescription and throws it into the hole, and walks off.
I'm still stuck in this hole...prayer doesn't work, medicine failed as well. Perhaps I should do everyone a favor and end it all?
As I'm contemplating my next move, a friend walks by, and in a final desperate act, I shout to him - "hey friend, I'm really stuck and nobody seems to be able to help, will you?" What my friend does next took me by complete surprise - he jumped into the hole with me. Shocked and horrified, I asked why did he jump into the hole, because now we are both stuck? He told me not to worry because he's been exactly where I've been and knows the way out.
If you know of someone with this disease (regardless of the drug), be there for them... and when the time comes that this person really needs some help, seek the assistance of a recovering addict, because they are the only ones that know what it takes to overcome ones addictions.
Love and Kindness...
RIP Robin...